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Weird Science

Everyone made such a big deal about mammograms ten years ago. It was the thing to do.

“We turn 40 this year,” cried my girlfriend gang, “Time for our mammograms!”

“No,” I said in my very final answer voice, “That’s silly. I have nothing to declare in that area. Why I would voluntarily walk into the doctor’s office and pay them to feel me up and take x-rated pictures, I have no idea.”

One by one that year, my girlfriends dutifully fulfilled their right of passage and came back with horror stories.

It’s borderline molestation what x-ray techs get away with in the name of science.

But my fit and forty girlfriends had all passed the test and stared me down as the last girl standing with her dignity until I took my turn.

It was a non-event, and “I told you so” really seemed superfluous at that point.

This year, however, we are staring down the barrel of 50, and the conversation is taking some interesting turns.

And by turns I mean, with a hose and a camera.

I cannot emphasize enough that I am done donating my body to science.

While I am still alive and using it.

Five kids, people.

I am all done bending over for shots in the butt, holding out my arm to vampires, having complete strangers check me for dilation, and using a Singer to stitch random bits of me back together. I’ve had enough monitors strapped to me for observation, sonograms searching for alien life, and kind ladies with soft voices sitting me on a couch and saying, “Tell me more about your mother.”

And speaking of my mother…

This is the year she might actually be right.

But let’s not jump to conclusions, it’s early days.

You’re only as old as you feel.

I’ve hovered somewhere in my early 30s for a long time, but my mother cannot wait for me to get old and experience all the agony that comes with it, in order to both share her wealth of knowledge in that arena and to commiserate with my coming-apart-at-the-seams body.

She loves me so.

I may have mentioned with a fair amount of bravado that, although I have shut down the baby factory, the factory never got the memo and continues full speed ahead, anticipating that, at the tender age of 49, we could change our mind and have triplets.


“I’m late,” I told my baby sister over the phone.

“For what? Dinner?”

“My period,” I said, panicky, “I am never late. Occasionally I am a day early for extra credit, but it’s been almost two weeks. I have to buy a pregnancy test.”

I am surprised that her eye-roll didn’t come right through the phone and upside my head.

“Stupid,” she said, “how old are you?”

“Thirty and some change,” I replied, “way younger than you.”

The test was negative. I called the doctor and left a request for an appointment. I gave them all the details and spent the afternoon fretting over what it could be. I only know babies. All other alternatives required surgery at best and oh my goodness what if I’m dying and I don’t know it yet and is this how I wanted to spend my very last happy go lucky afternoon???

The doctor called back and left a voice message because apparently I am now deaf in my old age and didn’t hear the phone ring.

“After going over your symptoms and reviewing your chart, I really need you to know that, at your age, this is very common. You don’t need an appointment. If you miss at least three in a row, call us back and we can chat. Otherwise, have a good day.”


I’ve been profiled.

So. Wrong.

The fork in the road involves either turning right and handing my body once more over to science for experimentation – demanding it no less! – or turning left where I accept my generous birthday gift and remodel the factory into a tea shop.

Polly put the kettle on.

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  1. Bonnie

    Welcome to the age of menopause! You are now officially “over the hill” (smiling to myself). There are positive things about this stage too you know…..:-)

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